We throw around the term "Resolution" like it's set in stone. Like it's something that Will Happen. But let's face it; resolutions beg to be disregarded. They're not important anymore. They're just a talking point.
So.
I have goals, not resolutions. "Resolution" implies that there is something wrong that needs to be fixed. "Goal" implies wanting to take what you have and get better. To improve and grow. I like the idea of bettering myself and setting realistic expectations.
The big goal? Finish my dissertation and degree. I know I haven't written enough. I know I haven't watched enough. And the sad thing is I work really hard, but I just haven't worked really hard at my dissertation.
The other big goal? Be more financially independent. I recently quit my retail job because of the inconsistent hours and will hopefully start something new soon that has fixed hours and a higher pay rate. I'm not banking on it, but I'm really hoping it pans out. If it doesn't? I'm going to live like the poor graduate student that I am and try to make it work. I spent a lot in the fall and I'm determined to not repeat that mistake this spring. But a new, dependable job would help.
My other goals are just as important to me, and they involve learning. I want to learn how to cross stitch. I want to learn to be a better teacher and instructor, both in the university classroom and at the yarn shop. I want to learn to keep to my commitments to myself, notably running three times a week and running in a 5k. I want to learn how to make my health a part of my schedule, just like working and teaching. I also want to learn to be a better photographer, maybe even take some classes.
I think these are reasonable goals. I think they're attainable goals. And I hope writing them out and thinking about them every day will keep me working hard.
So.
I have goals, not resolutions. "Resolution" implies that there is something wrong that needs to be fixed. "Goal" implies wanting to take what you have and get better. To improve and grow. I like the idea of bettering myself and setting realistic expectations.
The big goal? Finish my dissertation and degree. I know I haven't written enough. I know I haven't watched enough. And the sad thing is I work really hard, but I just haven't worked really hard at my dissertation.
The other big goal? Be more financially independent. I recently quit my retail job because of the inconsistent hours and will hopefully start something new soon that has fixed hours and a higher pay rate. I'm not banking on it, but I'm really hoping it pans out. If it doesn't? I'm going to live like the poor graduate student that I am and try to make it work. I spent a lot in the fall and I'm determined to not repeat that mistake this spring. But a new, dependable job would help.
My other goals are just as important to me, and they involve learning. I want to learn how to cross stitch. I want to learn to be a better teacher and instructor, both in the university classroom and at the yarn shop. I want to learn to keep to my commitments to myself, notably running three times a week and running in a 5k. I want to learn how to make my health a part of my schedule, just like working and teaching. I also want to learn to be a better photographer, maybe even take some classes.
I think these are reasonable goals. I think they're attainable goals. And I hope writing them out and thinking about them every day will keep me working hard.
Write a comment
Post a Comment